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  1. Anarchy Against Ignorance...

    Monday, 29 June 2009
    Anarchy Against Ignorance: Destructuring Schools for Better Education

    By Charles De Raedt

    Term Paper for Foundations of Education 3rd Trimester, SY 2008-2009 . University of the Cordilleras Baguio City, Philippines

    There is a parable in the Christian Bibles about two men who each built a house. One built his on a solid foundation and the other did not. The house built on rock withstood the storm in the parable and that built on sand collapsed. The man-made structure that housed the nuclear society of the former man’s family was erected on a proper foundation and was thus able to weather the elements. Another construct of man, society, must then also be built on proper foundations. Education, being an indispensable foundation of society, is then logically one of the elements of the good foundation upon which a good society can be raised.


    Philosophers, theorists and activists, three of whom will be discussed in this paper, namely, Karl Marx, Ivan Illich and A.S. Neill blame both individual and societal problems on poor and incorrect education supplied by a faulty educational system (Marx and Engels, 2005; Illich, 1970; Suissa, 2005). These three thinkers were chosen, as will be shown in the discussion, for their advocacy of Anarchistic forms of organization and education. Each was well respected in his accomplishments and though each had their critics, the contributions that they made have helped to shape and still continue to influence society today. All three realized the necessity of proper education in the establishment and proper functioning of a good society.


    According to Marx, the masses must be educated for them to be able to realize their personal worth and their importance to the economic stability of their society. This process is necessary for the proletarian revolution that will overthrow capitalism, end oppression by the privileged classes, disestablish the social structure that propagates the rule of the minority elite and establish a rule of the majority--self-governance of the people. Without digressing into another essay topic it seems to be that Communism is much more democratic than its detractors may want us to perceive it. In fact, in Marx’s original writings, those unadulterated by others of the time who called themselves Communists and Anarchists but whose ideas differed noticeably from Marx’s, his idea of the smallest, and autonomous social unit, the commune was essentially what the ancient Greeks, the originators of democracy, and Haldane, in agreement with the idea of the Greeks in On Being the Right Size, was an example of a true democracy (Marx and Engels, 2005; Haldane, 1963; Rubel, 1973). It was the ignorance of the working class of the fact that without their labor Capitalism would collapse and education was the cure for this ignorance and the catalyst for the revolution that would establish a classless, self-governing society.



    Illich used the paradigm of the educational system to argue that present hierarchical systems were at the root of the problems of society. Society as a whole needed to be disestablished so that it would not continue to improperly school its members. Rather than institutions and establishments imposing mis-education on students, Illich called for autonomous education sought out by the individual that should individualize and personalize each student’s educational and intellectual nourishment needs (Illich, 1970).


    All these theories and practices are directed at the acquisition of knowledge by everyone according to their needs and, once knowledgeable about what they need to know, the desire to further their pursuit of education to their fulfillment. With the destruction of limitations on education, faulty educational traditions and institutions that hinder education—without education being controlled in and dictated by those in power in a hierarchy--comes the destruction of ignorance.


    The absence of a hierarchy, established levels of leadership and authority over individuals and groups in society is an Anarchy. The very word stirs up images of terror, violence, unrest and chaos. In fact, the Encarta Encyclopedia (2007) defines it as a “chaotic situation”, “a situation in which there is a total lack of organization or control”. And when looking at the synonyms from the thesaurus, these are the words given: disorder, chaos, lawlessness, revolution, mayhem, rebellion, and its antonym is given as: order. The root word of Anarchy is archy which means government (Wiley Publishing, Inc., 2009). Simply put, an Anarchy is a society without a government. There is no lexical or logical reason to call it any of the synonyms listed above and it certainly does not mean an absence of order. Charles Darwin stated in The Origin of the Species that humans would not have evolved without some sort of self governance and sense of preservation of their species and scholars contend that this prevents an Anarchical society from descending into chaos (Suissa, 2005). Society will always have “self-control” even though there is an absence of government. It is this control that forms the foundation of a stable Anarchistic society whether it be a communist village, an Illichian educational web or the Summerhill School. The term used in this paper is Conscientious Anarchy.

    Among the three people mentioned above Neill was the most active in implementing change in education. He founded the Summerhill School in 1921 as a proving ground for his educational philosophy and to test his theories of democratic (also termed “free”) education (Readhead & da Silva, 2008). He believed that the traditional structure of education founded on traditional societal values was oppressive and wrong. Summerhill has been called an Anarchistic school (Suissa, 2005; Gribble, 1998) and functions as a Conscientious Anarchy. The school calls itself a democracy and it is true that elections are held and that everyone’s vote from a four year old student to a 40 year old teacher carries equal weight (and the students outnumber the teachers by about 10:1) but even if there was a rule decided by democratic vote there is no body that enforces that rule. The majority constantly decides that there are to be classes for all students, yet many students choose not to attend class and are not expelled. Although most students, after being given time to adjust, come around and begin the learning process (Readhead & da Silva, 2008).


    Critics of Summerhill say that without strictly enforced rules no student will ever study, much less graduate, however, the graduation rate of Summerhill is 84% and many of the graduates go on to university and have become doctors, lawyers, engineers and other highly successful professionals. As of the 2007 Ofsted report Summerhill satisfactorily met the U.K. government’s standards for an educational institution (McCarthy, 2007). Neill’s experiment in Anarchy is a success.


    Marx, although never a part of any physical revolution, supplied the ideological basis for 19th and 20th century Communist revolutions, the most well known being the 1917 Bolshevik revolution in Russia. Part of Marx’s philosophy was that universal education was a prerequisite for the eventual revolution that would overthrow the capitalist bourgeoisie and install “the rule of the proletariat”. In his writings, including the Communist Manifesto, he advocated the control of individual and autonomous communes by their members—all together comprising a stateless society (Rubel, 1973). He advocated Conscientious Anarchy.


    In De-schooling Society, Illich used the educational system as a paradigm for exposing his ideas that society as a whole needed to be disestablished so that it would not continue to improperly school its members. Rather than institutions and establishments imposing mis-education on students, Illich called for autonomous education sought out by the individual that should individualize each student’s educational needs (Illich, 1970).


    What ties these three thinkers’ approaches to education together is the underlying opposition to a governing body that remotely controls and dictates the educational needs, qualifications and direction as well as the quantity and quality of each. Only Marx used universal education provided to everyone, but as a stepping stone to a collective of autonomous communes that would undertake the education of themselves and their progeny independent of any form of centralized government. Neill still functioned under the educational laws of the U.K. however he broke every conceivable convention that a British boarding school would have. Students could not be reprimanded for having sex on school grounds. They might be spoken to later by a teacher, and the teacher would advise them of teenage pregnancy and to exercise precaution by using contraception, but they would certainly not be expelled or, as was the case early last century, beaten for breaking what many consider to be a sacred law above laws of the school or state.


    Ivan Illich went the furthest with his theory about destructuralization. De-schooling Society used educational institutions and the governments that ruled them as a paradigm for a much larger argument. He believed that the whole system must be de-systematized.



    I want to raise the general question of the mutual definition of man's nature
    and the nature of modern institutions which characterizes our world view and
    language. To do so, I have chosen the school as my paradigm, and I therefore
    deal only indirectly with other bureaucratic agencies of the corporate state:
    the consumer-family, the party, the army, the church, the media. My analysis of
    the hidden curriculum of school should make it evident that public education
    would profit from the de-schooling of society, just as family life, politics,
    security, faith, and communication would profit from an analogous process
    (Illich, 1970).


    The fact is our educational systems do not work. If our educational foundation was good and if it has been good for any length of time we would have built our house of society upon rock and it would be a good society. It isn’t.


    None of the three thinkers discussed believe they do and Illich goes several steps further to say that none of the foundations of society work. In the educational paradigm alone he writes
    The pupil is thereby "schooled" to confuse teaching with learning, grade advancement with education, a diploma with competence, and fluency with the ability to say something new. His imagination is "schooled" to accept service in place of value (Illich, 1970).


    As for society in general, he states that what we consider health care, community improvement, safety, national security and productive work are nothing more than mistaken identities for medical treatment, social work, police protection, military strength and the rat race. “Health, learning, dignity, independence, and creative endeavor are defined as little more than the performance of the institutions which claim to serve these ends, and their improvement is made to depend on allocating more resources to the management of hospitals, schools, and other agencies in question.” (Illich, 1970)


    Returning to the paradigm of education, what is being said here is that now, improvements in education follow a process that goes more or less along these steps:

    1) Society makes requests, or law makers lobby for improved education
    2) The political process begins, takes its time and if it ends in a positive response,
    3) Budget allocations and/or laws are passed and control over this new money or power is given over to the educational institutions.
    4) The quality of education remains the same.


    In step one, lawmakers have their agendas which do not necessarily mean that they honestly intend to improve education and, for the most part, the leaders of society now are the products of past mis-education. Thus, from the beginning, the process is flawed. And then we have a political process following where numerous and multifarious riders are attached to bills before they are passed into laws that hardly reflect the intent of their instigators—their ideas already being flawed. Next, if a budget is allocated or if a new law is passed, the power does not go into the hands of the people but the multi-billion Peso institution that is government and the private education sector, which are businesses run for profit. And the net result is no change, or at worst, change for the worse. What will happen when the law is implemented changing the term for an undergraduate degree from four years to five? Will graduates have learned anything more, because, gauging from what they know now a 20% increase in time spent in school systems that are already proven ineffective by virtue of the fact that they need to be modified would not make a difference. And would this make them more employable, or create more jobs for them to find when they do graduate? No.


    If we followed any of our three thinkers’ philosophies we may get a process that looks like this:

    1) Individuals or autonomous groups decide what their educational needs are as well as what they would like to learn.
    2) Individuals seek tutelage from scholars in their community and groups pass on knowledge to the generation that will take over operation of the commune, including everything learned from past experience that might change traditional methods that no longer work.
    3) Unskilled or partially educated labor is exchanged for tuition.
    4) A new generation of well educated students emerges who were never forced to finish their education nor wait to complete it in a certain period of time.


    True, this is a simple plan and may seem like a simplistic approach. What makes it good, however is that it is not a re-hash of the approaches to “improving education” that have been implemented for decades. In the example of the institution of the general education program which fills undergraduate students’ time for almost two years, from the first batch that graduated to the batches we see graduating now how many citizens do we see with well rounded personalities, having well rounded conversations in coffee shops about well rounded topics that will help to create a better and more well rounded society? I never see any. I myself dropped out of university for ten years because of boredom with the GE curriculum. Any student motivated to learn will acquire this knowledge on their own. And if they do not then do not hire them to do work for you. There’s a simplistic approach for you.


    A.S. Neill said that it was the student’s prerogative whether or not to educate himself. He opened a school where students could start learning any time they wanted—or leave without learning anything. His school has produced students who graduated with well-respected degrees. Who would have thought that your family physician, possibly someone who had a part in saving you or your child’s life spent half her years in high school, smoking, drinking and having sex in the bushes behind the school?


    A student with Illichian motives will seek out education even if it is not offered on a silver platter, albeit a tarnished platter that costs much more than it is worth. And, as shown by the ancient Greeks and proven by Haldane using mathematics, a Marxist commune is one the most true and pure forms of democracy.


    Ignorance needs to be destroyed if our society is to survive. The seeds of good education must be sown to make that society thrive. Oppressive governments and institutions have not succeeded. It is time to end their rule. Anarchy’s true definition must be understood and its philosophy implemented. It is freedom. It is the same freedom to shout fire in a democratic state without the fear of the jackboot in your face—but you cannot shout fire if there is none or soon society will throw you out and support you no longer just as the boy who cried wolf too many times. Animal societies, who have no government function effectively in this state of Anarchy. They are conscientious of the common good and are ruled by the consensus. Social scientists define revolution as the disassembly of the old structure. When we revolutionize the bad and replace it with the good, let us not forget to lay down that rock foundation which is Proper Education.

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    Let Charles and myself know your thoughts and feedback about the article by adding your comments.

    Best Wishes

    Andy

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  2. A Modern Case of Past Life Regression

    Thursday, 18 June 2009

    By James Paul Pandarakalam

    Past life regression (PLR) may be both an experimental technique and a form of therapy, but it has scientific credibility only if reincarnation itself is proven scientifically to exist. The existence of reincarnation is not yet a scientific truth. Recent studies indicate that reincarnation merits acknowledgment as a scientific hypothesis because it can be falsified or confirmed through scientific investigation. For this reason Dr. Ian Stevenson's international field studies are immensely important. Any idea that has clinical usefulness has clinical validity, but the clinical validity of PLR has yet to be convincingly demonstrated.

    The most famous case of past life regression (PLR) is undoubtedly that of Bridey Murphy. It is a historical case. In the mid-twentieth century Morey Bernstein, a Colorado businessman who had practised hypnotism for ten years with hundreds of different persons, decided to attempt to regress someone to one or more past lives. He chose as his subject a woman called Virginia Tighe, knowing that she had the ability to go into a deep trance with ease. Between 29 November 1952 and 29 August 1953 Bernstein made six attempts to facilitate the regression of Virginia. During those sessions she recalled one brief life as a baby who died. After that there emerged the figure of Bridey Murphy - more formally Bridget Kathleen Murphy.

    Following her first experience as Bridey, Virginia mutated into her alter ego whenever invited to do so in a trance state. She proffered a significant amount of information about Ireland, none of which she had any explicable way of knowing as Virginia Tighe. She said she had been born in Cork in 1798, the daughter of a Protestant barrister called Duncan Murphy and his wife Kathleen. She had a brother named Duncan Blaine Murphy, who had married Aimee Strayne. Another brother had died in infancy. At the age of twenty, Bridey said, she was married in a Protestant ceremony to a Catholic, Brian Joseph McCarthy, the son of another Cork barrister. Brian and Bridey moved to Belfast, where he attended school and eventually progressed to teach law at Queen's University. They had no children, and Bridey lived until she was sixty-six.

    No record of any of these facts has been identified in Ireland. However, during her narration of her experiences as Bridey, Virginia mentioned the names of two Belfast grocers, Farr's and John Carrigan. It proved possible to verify that two grocers with those names did operate retail enterprises in the city at the appropriate time. She said that her address in Cork was The Meadows, and it was established that there is an area in that town named Mardike Meadows. Queen's University in Belfast is of course a renowned educational establishment. Virginia used certain distinctive words that on investigation proved to be in use in Ireland at Bridey's time, such as 'ditched' for 'buried', a 'linen' to mean a handkerchief, and 'lough' for river or lake. It was pointed out by those convinced of the veracity of Virginia's recollections that a girl born and raised in the United States, as Virginia was, would be unlikely to have been acquainted with these terms. Investigative reporters concluded that there was some evidence for 'something', as yet unexplained. Credible hypnosis experts claim to have debunked this case, but the late Professor Ian Stevenson who has investigated maximum cases of children remembering previous lives, considered it worthy of closer scrutiny.

    "Looking For Carroll Beckwith" ( Robert L. Snow,1999, Looking for Carroll Beckwith. Pennsylvania: Daybreak books) is an interesting case of past life regression . Carroll Beckwith was a minor portrait painter who had lived and worked in New York city in the late 19th and early20th century. He had never done anything outstanding that would make him immortal as an artist. Captain Robert L. Snow is a commander of the homicide branch at the Indianapolis Police department. He discovered while under hypnosis that he was Carroll Beckwith in a previous life. Snow wanted to disprove the images he had experienced while under hypnosis as a form of cryptomnesia. Mr Snow was already disenchanted with hypnotherapeutic procedures in child sex abuse cases. The regression took place in 1992 and Captain Snow was able to find 28 details to his regression that could be proven or disproven.

    Instead of disproving the veracity of his images, Mr Snow proved that most every recollection he had while hypnotised actually took place nearly 100 years earlier. While holidaying in New Orleans, Captain Snow entered an art gallery in an obscure side street where he encountered the painting of his memory: the hunchbacked woman. He learned that Beckwith's personal diaries and an unpublished autobiography existed in a local library in New York. For a detective that was a definitive piece of evidence to close or prove the case. From Beckwith's diaries, he found that 26 points of 28 matched with the life of Carroll Beckwith. His recollections included that Beckwith used a walking stick even though he was not disabled, visited France, drunk wine (Whisky was the popular drink in US), disliked painting portraits, upset over bad picture hangings and lighting in art shows, painted the portrait of a hunchbacked woman, mother died of blood clot, wife Berth was childless, Berth used to play piano or sing for friends etc. Captain Snow got the name of the previous personality's wife incorrect but his frank admittance of it adds to his credibility. Mr Snow claims that he has more proof of his previous life existence than most murder cases and is convinced that he carries some of the memories of Carroll Beckwith. Parapsychologists could offer alternative explanations even for such apparently true memories. Captain Snow simply concludes in his book : "I cannot accept that, with the billions of people who have inhabited the Earth, my case is unique, that mine would be the only case since John the Baptist, who some say that Jesus describes in Mathew as being a rebirth of Elijah".

    Extreme skeptics of past life regression might explain away the flash backs of hypnotic remembrances of previous lives as "walk in " phenomenon which has not been discussed in the scientific literature of parapsychology.

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  3. Your Hypnotist Interviews Stephanie Riseley

    Monday, 8 June 2009
    At the age of 19, Stephanie had a near death experience. Something physically pulled her back from deaths door and it profoundly changed her life forever. Then later in her life, diagnosed with systematic lupus, she turned her back on western medicine.

    Stephanie Riseley is a writer, hypnotherapist and author of "Love From Both Sides – A True Story of Soul Survival and Sacred Sexuality".



    YH:
    Hi Stephanie and welcome to Your Hypnotist Blog
    .

    Stephanie:
    Thank you, it’s a pleasure to be here, especially because you’re in England! I love England. I lived in Putney, London with th
    is wild and crazy cockney family. My goodness – what an experience that was!

    YH:
    I am reading your book at the moment, and finding it very engaging, yet slightly uncomfortable in places. Tell everyone a little bit about your new book, “Love From Both Sides – A True Story of Soul Survival and Sacred Sexuality”.


    Stephanie:
    My book tells the story of my husband dying in my arms and coming back to chat. If anyone wants to read the first four chapters
    , just go to my website. I’ve had so many responses from women who’ve had similar experiences.

    But “Love From Both Sides,” seems to hit men the hardest and effect them very deeply, b
    ecause ultimately it’s a cautionary tale. It asks the question: What happens when you meet your “soul mate,” but refuse to accept the love?

    YH:
    I don’t think we can imagine what it feels like to have a husband die in your arms. In your bio you said, “Now you might wonder, if it was predestined, why did he die?” Is this something that you believe?


    Stephanie:
    I don’t believe anything is “predestined.” We all have choices – and that’s the fun and excitement of life. And I feel that’s why my book is interesting, because you can see how moment by moment choices can change two destinies. Dan and me meeting in this lifetime was “orchestrated” by our over-souls, in that we lived around the corner from each other in Be
    rkeley, in 1970 when I was 23 and he was 30.

    I used to pass him all the time walking to campus, but he simply would pass me by. On an “impulse,” I even went so far as to do my laundry in his building, and in a vague memory I can see us standing in front of the washing machines together, but he just ignored me. He chose to marry someone else instead.

    Now, why did he die? That’s actually the most interesting question, because of our “soul agreements.” He asked me to marry him on the 4th date – and we hadn’t even kissed yet. I was 42, in my 2nd year of film school at UCLA, and living with Eve Arden, the actress. I was happier than I’d ever been in my life, and then out of nowhere, this guy asks me to marry him. And the proposal went like this:

    You want to have a kid, don’t you?”
    I said, “I did, but it’s too late.”
    And he said, “No, it’s not. Marry me, we’ll do that.”

    But then, when I got pregnant, he didn’t want the baby, and the baby knew it, and she left. I miscarried. And that was the betrayal that ultimately led to his death. And that story, once again, is the cautionary tale my book tells.

    YH: You have led an incredible life with many challenges that you have overcome. When you were 19 years old you had a near death experience. How did this shape the rest of your life?

    Stephanie: Honestly, I didn’t realise at the time how profoundly it would change my perception, because I was so young. Dan dying was not my first experience with the “In Between.” I’d had others, but since I desperately wanted to be normal, I chose to ignore them.

    My first happened when I was 19. I had pericarditis with bilateral lung effusions, or in English, the sack around my heart, the pericardium, became inflamed and both my lungs filled with fluid. As one doctor would say, “You’ve got a literally weeping heart. It’s actually very poetic.” Poetic perhaps, but it made it so painful to breathe that I couldn't lie down flat. My parents had no interest in my health or anything besides their own passionate dance of destruction; so consequently, I sat alone and upright in a darkened room for almost two weeks. When one of my mother’s friends opened my door, looked in and saw me, it was almost too late.

    They rushed me to the hospital, but after the nurses got me settled into bed, I simply wanted “out.” I remember closing my eyes, and it felt as if my hands were holding onto a bar just overhead, then I simply let go. Like magic, I slid easily down toward a warm, amber light. I knew exactly what was happening; I was dying and I felt relieved. But then out of nowhere, something grabbed me by the scruff of the neck and yanked me back. It felt as if my body screamed, “Hey, wait just a damned minute! You’re nineteen. You may not want to live, but all of us hundred-twenty trillion cells do! So get a grip, Girl!”

    After that experience, I just “knew” that death wasn’t a problem at all. Life was the problem. Truthfully, I was in such horrible physical shape because I’d given up wanting to live. And my own thinking had almost destroyed my body – I’d created anti-nuclear antibodies to myself. My new favorite book on this subject is Bruce Lipton’s “The Biology of Belief.” I teach that book and use to help my clients heal.

    YH: Later on in your life you were diagnosed with systematic lupus. What is that exactly?

    Stephanie: Systemic lupus is an autoimmune disorder – and as I said my body had created anti-bodies to itself. That’s a simplistic answer to a complicated question, because it’s a complicated condition. All the connective tissues become inflamed and once they’re inflamed, since they’re rubbing up against each other all the time, fluid develops in places where there’s no room for it. It’s unbelievably painful. I couldn’t walk, move my hands, or lift my arm to comb my hair.

    Eventually, it felt as if my heart attacked my lungs, then my lungs got angry with my kidneys, until I found myself in a hospital for 4 months, and on 60 mg of prednisone a day. It wasn’t pretty. But let me say now that the disease has been the biggest gift of my life. Because I’ve been forced to take care of myself, eat right, and stay out of the sun. And because of that I’m in great shape at 62. Look at what staying out of the sun has done for my skin. Oh, and I haven’t had plastic surgery – my face still moves! So buy a hat and wear it!

    YH: When did you become disillusioned with western medicine and why did you look for a more alternative approach?

    Stephanie: After four years on prednisone, I was dying. I’d lost most of my hair, I’d blown up to the size of baby-blimp, I was limping all the time, because I was losing my hip joints. Prednisone eats away bone at the top of the femur. Interesting, how things work when the “universe steps in.” A friend asked why I was in the hospital all the time and I told him. He said, “Oh, I know someone who almost died of that. But her father pulled her out of the hospital and took her to this health food doctor down in Capistrano, and now she’s well!”

    I knew instantly I needed to go see this man. So I wrote to Dr. Henry Bieler, and read his book, “Food Is Your Best Medicine.” He saw me on June 2, 1970. He was 93 then, he was amazing! He told me what I would
    have to do to get well, and said, “Come back in three months.” He charged me $15, and never cashed the check. I followed his advice, but never saw him again, because by September of 1970, I’d moved to New York City. I didn’t “get well” overnight, however. It took a year to wean myself off the prednisone, and a full ten years to get back to what would be called “normal.”

    YH: You've had many jobs including being a taxi driver in Manhattan, New York. I bet you have many interesting stories to share?

    Stephanie: Oh that question makes me laugh! That’s a book unto itself, because I have so many stories. I drove from ’74 to ’81 and I interacted with so many lives in seven years of driving a cab. First of all, forty times a night I had to look into a stranger’s eyes and ask myself, “Will this person kill me or not?” Because it was the ‘70s and New York City was a dangerous place. But that skill of being able to size a person up and make a snap decision, and trust my judgment cannot be overestimated. “Blink,” Malcolm Gladwell’s book talks about that, as does “Mind Wide Open,” by Steven Johnson.

    Even though I have funny stories about pimps, and call girls a la the movie “Taxi Driver,” the thing that strikes me now is the overt racism I encountered every night. I was literally stunned by how many people – Queens borough people who would say, “You don’t pick up ####### do you?” I had just left UC Berkeley in California and I had no idea that that people would be so open about their racism. Yes, people can be racist and prejudiced, but in New York, it was right out there – in your face!

    Late one Sunday night, I was following a fleet of white lights – empty cabs – heading uptown along 8th Avenue, when I saw an elegantly dressed, tall black man standing near the corner of 46th, hailing cab after cab, but all the empty taxis just passed him by, because he was black.

    I pulled up, and he opened the door, climbed in, and I said, “Does that happen all the time?”

    “All the time,” he said. “But I don’t let it get to me. If I let it get to me, I’d be dead. I was standing here last night with Lena Horn and they passed us both by.”

    And that’s why I’m so pleased and proud that my fellow citizens here in the US were able to overcome our communal, ingrained prejudice and elect a black man with an Arab sounding name to lead us out of the nightmare of the last eight years!

    YH: I heard you had a part in Quincy, a drama about a US Coroner starring Jack Klugman. That show is constantly being re-run in the UK. Can you remember the episode you appeared in and who you played?

    Stephanie: Quincy’s still running in the UK? Funny. I should let SAG know I moved so they can send me my $2.15 residual checks!

    In the episode called “Women of Valor,” I play a doctor who betrays a midwife. What’s funny about that is that I was working as a waitress at the Music Center, and someone looked up at me and said, “You were that mean doctor last night on Quincy!” And I smiled and said, “Yes, and tonight I need to know what you’d like on your salad.” But that’s life in the theatre and here in LA!

    YH: After being diagnosed with systematic lupus you turned to alternative medicine. Was it this that inspired you to become a Hypnotherapist?

    Stephanie: No, the gods pushed me into this job, literally. No doubt about it in my mind now, because I’ve done so many other things, and I’ve never had a job where say, “I love what I do, because I save lives.” And that’s the truth. But let me tell you how I got here:

    My husband Dan was a lawyer and in 2001, he’d done a dissolution of partnership for two women who owned a Beverly Hills hypnotherapy business. In December of 2001, he got an email from one of them that said she was doing hypnotherapy training. Now, prior to this, I’d studied hypnosis in college in 1968, read all kinds of books about it, and yes, absolutely used it to heal myself. Besides that, I’d worked at UCLA’s Neuropsychiatric Institute for 4 years, and did six years of Jungian dream analysis there. Since I had the background, Dan turned to me and said, “You’re under so much stress, why don’t you go do this?” So I did.

    I started working there on December 18th 2001, and on December 26th, Dan died. But I was working there – and that saved my life. Because I was working with people who were in just as much pain as I was, only they hadn’t just lost their husbands – they’d lost something more important: they’d lost themselves – and I knew the road back. So, over these past 8 years I’ve helped many people get their own selves back and reclaim their lives. It’s just great work. And last year? That business went belly up, so I was forced to go solo – in the biggest economic meltdown since the 30s. But I assure you, I have a hypnotherapy practice that fills me with joy and pays my rent. This is great work – it’s exhausting, but so wonderfully fulfilling!

    YH: We asked readers of Your Hypnotist Blog to send in questions for me to ask you . So, are you sitting back, relaxed and comfortable. We’ll try to be gentle.

    Stephanie: (laugh!)… Are you a dentist?

    YH: What is past life regression? How can this help in therapy?

    Stephanie: Both my sister and husband died and then came back to me, so I believe deeply in the eternal validity of the soul. In Past-Life Regression, I act as a cosmic tour guide. First, you decide on a problem or a situation that you want to investigate. By accessing these "other lives" you gain perspective on relationships or serious problems in this lifetime.

    Everyone’s experience is unique. You might experience the past-life as a vivid memory, and then will be able to see, hear, and experience the lifetime that might hold the key to a current physical or emotional problem or help you to answer a perplexing question. It’s not at all scary, it’s actually quite entertaining. It’s like watching a movie, only you’re inside the movie, and guess what?
    You’re the star! What could be more fun?

    YH: What evidence is there that people have past lives?

    Stephanie: There’s actually quite a lot of evidence – real evidence that can be found. There’s a famous case in Ireland where a woman died leaving eight children, and she reincarnated very fast – always had bleed through memories – and she tracked her “children” down. An English TV show filmed it all, I believe.

    The International Association for Regression Research and Therapies, IARRT.org has lots of information on this.

    In my own life, when I was a three years old, I remember recurrent dreams of me tending to long rows of patients – I knew I was a doctor. I had a stethoscope draped around my neck – I was tall – but I was still me, a three year old. That was a bleed-through dream. In my own recent past life, I was a very rich and entitled doctor in Berlin, who thought that my money, my culture, and my god would save me from this ignorant idiot, Hitler. I was wrong, and I wound up being marched into a gas chamber. Because of that life, the challenge or lesson of this life is to never give up. I could have fought back then – I could have made a difference then, but I didn’t. I gave up and let myself fall into anger and self-pity.

    YH: Have you taken clients back to any famous historical characters?

    Stephanie: No. Most Past Life Regressions take people back to lives that give them insights into relationships. note: names etc have been changed.

    The other day, I got a phone message from a woman saying she needed an “Emergency Past Life Regression.” I thought, “Okay. This is a first!” But I talked to her and discovered that she had fallen head over heels in love with a handsome New York lawyer and now she felt crazy. She needed help and she needed it now.

    Rebecca was an attractive newly divorced woman of 53, who lives in Los Angeles. She’d met Trevor because she’d seen his picture at a friend’s house, and she knew she had to meet him! So she emailed him and before she knew it, she was in New York, where they had four fabulous, sexually explosive days. Steve and Rebecca were so connected, they couldn’t keep apart. She came home to LA, and then Trevor flipped out – totally.

    He said he wasn’t ready for this kind of relationship, and that he couldn’t do this now. It was too emotional. And that’s why she called me.


    I led her back to a time in the early 1900s, in Boston. She saw herself as a extremely rich young woman, waiting on a park bench for her boyfriend. And she smiled, and said, “Oh, its Steve! He’s a soda jerk – he’s wearing a funny stripped shirt.” She started to cry. “Oh, I feel so happy just to have him near me!” Then through a series of “going forward in time” suggestions, she saw her former life open up to her.

    She saw her wonderfully protective parents who loved her, but told her that Steve could never be a part their world, because he wasn’t of her class. And, because of that, they were going send her away to school.

    And then, she saw herself older, newly graduated from college, with her Harvard lawyer soon-to-be husband in tow. Then, when she was about to be married, she saw herself at the top of a stairway dressed in white, she said, “I don’t want to do this! I still love Steve! Why am I doing this? For my parents? For this town?” But she married the lawyer anyway, and had a very boring but good life with him.

    She was “club lady,” who did volunteer work, but never loved like that again. Then one day, when she was in her 60s, now a grandmother in that lifetime, Steve, who was now a widower, came to her house, flowers in hand. He’d become wildly successful as an ice cream manufacturer. She sat with him, and she said, “Oh, I feel as if someone has just watered my withered heart! I still love him so much!”

    He wanted her to come away with him, but out of propriety, once again she didn’t follow her heart, she stayed in a marriage that was dead, and did as she was expected. And so when she died in that lifetime, I asked Rebecca what she needed to learn from that lifetime. “To follow my heart!”

    Now you might wonder what happened? How did that help her? I advised her to just let Steve come around. That the experience probably scared him (laugh!!) and to just send him love. But for her not to expect anything. And so she was able to understand the powerful emotions, and eventually, everything worked out very well.


    YH: How can hypnosis help people to stop smoking?

    Stephanie: I use more than just hypnosis; I also use Cognitive Behavioral Modification. I spend an hour explaining brain function, and then I make a CD for clients to reinforce what they’ve just heard to help with the “reprogramming.” I see quitting smoking is about understanding how your brain works, and then learning to “re-program” it. And that’s how I help clients.

    YH: What advice would you give someone starting a career in hypnotherapy?

    Stephanie:
    Love what you do, and fall in love with your clients! I have so many wonderful clients – this really is the best job, because I help them target goal and reach them… easily, effortlessly! My clients trust that I’m only here to help them. So focus on healing and helping and you will be successful! Oh, and be aware when you can’t help someone. Some people don’t want to change. Just let those clients go.


    YH: In your opinion, what is hypnosis?

    Stephanie:
    Focused, relaxed concentration. That’s it. But in truth, no one really knows what hypnosis really is, or how it works. Just like no really knows what gravity is, or why it works.


    YH:
    You have faced many challenges in your life, how did you find the strength to keep going?


    Stephanie:
    There was no “Plan B.” I didn’t have a choice – when my husband died, I was a wreck, because he left me in $180,000 in debt, with no insurance, retirement, savings… nothing. I was forced to live “in the present.” As long as everything was “okay this fifteen seconds,” I decided I could make it to the next 15 seconds. And that’s what I did.


    YH:
    We have received a lot of questions from YHB readers about weight loss. How can hypnotherapy help to loose weight?


    Stephanie
    : Hypnotherapy can help to re-program the brain from sabotaging, self-defeating inner-monologues that create destructive choices . Helping you to achieve your goal and be a healthier you.

    YH:
    Stephanie
    thank you for being a guest at Your Hypnotist Blog today.

    Stephanie:
    My pleasure. Thanks for having me here today! “Love From Both Sides – A True Story of Soul Survival and Sacred Sexuality” is available from Amazon.co.uk. If you’re in the states, Barnes & Nobles has copies on the shelves
    . You can read the first 4 chapters of my book at http://www.stephanieriseley.com/
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